There is a way that seems right to a man, but its end is the way to death.

(Proverbs 14:12 NIV)

We’ve all had moments that are funny in hindsight but humbling at the time.  Like the father who called his son in a panic because his computer wouldn’t turn on. He checked the outlet, the power cord, even rebooted it again and again. Still nothing.

His son patiently walked him through some troubleshooting steps over the phone. Finally, he asked if there was anything on the screen, and his dad said, “Yes, it says ‘Samsung.'”

There was a pause.  “Dad… that’s your TV.”

It’s a perfect reminder of how easy it is to pour our energy into the wrong thing. Sometimes we aim all our effort at the wrong target, leaving the real problem untouched.  We’ve all been there – absolutely convinced we’re on the right track, wondering why our efforts aren’t producing results.

Proverbs 14:12 warns us, “There is a way that seems right to a man, but its end is the way to death.” That’s not God scolding us.  It’s him waving a big “danger ahead” sign.  Our human perspective is limited.  We can think we’re going the right way, only to discover later we were headed off course.

In those moments, God might be saying to us, “You’re looking at the wrong screen.”  He’s a patient Father who lovingly redirects us toward what truly matters.

That’s why it’s so important to ask God for clarity before we waste more time chasing the wrong thing.  When we feel stuck or frustrated, we ought to pray, “Lord, if I’m missing something, please show me,” or “Help me see this situation from your perspective.”  Sometimes all it takes is a small change in focus to remove a lot of frustration.

So, if you’re feeling stuck today, ask God, “Am I focusing on the wrong thing?  What do you want me to see that I’m not seeing?”  He delights in answering prayers like that.

Remember, getting off track doesn’t make you foolish — it makes you human. What matters is being humble enough to ask God for directions when you realize you might be lost.

Prayer: Father, thank you for your patience with me when I’m focused on the wrong thing. Redirect my heart and attention when I get sidetracked. Show me where I’m missing your perspective.  In Jesus’ name, amen.

Alan Smith
Reprinted with permission from Alan Smith’s Thought For the Day