Have you ever noticed that the more we insist on being in control of
our lives, the less fruit is forthcoming?
My dog, Salida noticed
that too. She likes to have her own way as well. Take, for example, the
times she decides she wants to go outside. She will sit right next to me
and breathe her noxious dragon breath right in my face. If I try to
ignore her I will pass out, and I might even die! She always gets her
way immediately. She is in control.
Getting back inside is a
harder endeavour for her. Or at least it used to be. No matter how hard
she scratched at our door, we often didn't hear her, and so she could
remain in front of the closed door for much longer than anticipated. No
fruit was forthcoming, no matter what she tried.
Until a Ragdoll
cat was introduced into the family, that is! The cat, Roxy, immediately
took a liking to the dog. I cannot say her feelings were reciprocated,
however our dog also did not reject the cat completely. Rather she
compromised and allowed Roxy to be her one-way friend.
Their
relationship is beneficial, believe me. As long as they are getting
along, Salida gets her way through the door in both directions!
How so? Here's the new deal: Dragon breath to get outside, and a nonstop
meowing ragdoll cat to get back in.
Hey! It works! As soon as the
dog comes back to the door, Roxy will start getting our attention by
meowing incessantly until we open the door. We truly have no choice but
to obey immediately. Otherwise we would end up in an institution!
As long as Salida depends on Roxy, it works! The fruit of her desire
is forthcoming!
I believe we could learn a lesson or two from our
own animals.
If fruit is not forthcoming, could it be time to let
go of control in our lives, and allow God to be the Guide? After all, we
DID accept Him as Lord AND Saviour, didn't we?
Rob Chaffart