I was driving to the grocery store on a warm morning in May. The
trees which had looked like skeletons only two months before were
covered in lush, robust, green leaves. Birds were flying to and from
their nests to gather food to feed their newborn babies.
Butterflies were floating along the roadsides looking for freshly
blooming wild flowers. The fields were full of buttercups and
dandelions. The sweet scent of clover was filling the air as well. I
smiled as I watched the golden sunshine reflecting off the leaves. It
was such a peaceful and heavenly time.
I felt happy to be alive.
My calm was broken, though, as I rounded a curve. A huge U-Haul
truck was coming my way several feet over the center line. I swerved as
far onto the berm of the road as I could to miss it. It was followed by
not one but two other U-Haul trucks just as large.
I wondered if
all the stuff inside of them belonged to the same person. I slowed down
my car and waited for my heart rate to follow. It was then that I
noticed a self-storage business along the side of the highway, building
new units for all the people who couldn't fit their possessions into
their houses. I saw a young couple carrying boxes into one of the units.
It seemed strange that a couple just out of their teens could already
have too much stuff.
I lost my own taste for owning stuff when a
house fire in the middle of the night destroyed everything my family
owned when I was only eleven years old. The only thing I had left was
the underwear I was wearing. Yet, our whole family had awakened in time
to escape and we thanked God for our lives.
In the weeks that
followed friends and family gave us a lot of stuff to get us back on our
feet, but none of it seemed as important any more. What was important
was seeing my Mom's smile, giving my Nana a hug and a kiss, and
watching my Dad snooze in his chair after a hard day's work. What was
important was the stuff of the soul, not the stuff of this world.
Since then I have tried to limit the things I purchase. I didn't
want too much stuff crowding up my life. I wanted to only buy what I
needed and to spend my days in learning, growing, and loving others.
In this life we are given a limited amount of time. We can spend it
loving each other, enjoying this beautiful world God made for us, and
making it a better place or we can spend it acquiring stuff. One gives
us joy. The other gives us work. One builds us treasures in Heaven.
The other takes our treasures here on Earth. One fills our lives
with peace, kindness, and happiness. The other fills our days with
worry, fear, and regret. Make your choice wisely then.
Fill your
life with love not with stuff.