Hello, I hope that this article reflects on how staying positive through
our most difficult times can give us a better way to look at life as we
go through our day filled with challenges and the feel of accomplishing
something great. My Name is Sylvia Sugar Lopez and a while back I
entered "My Unfinished Story". This article was about how through
the challenges of being blind there is still hope with some
determination and self-perseverance. This time I want to share how being
blind has helped me show other's that even though difficulty times keep
coming that light is still there and how a positive attitude can make
things a little easier.
I am happy and blessed to say that it has
been 15 years since my Kidney & Pancreas transplants and they are doing
well considering. My pancreas is Chronically Rejecting but this simply
means its aging and needs a little help, so a new drug is being taken in
hopes to stop, or prevent further rejection. I have also gone through
surgery on both hands due to side-effects from anti-rejection meds but I
do what I need to do to keep moving forward with a positive outlook of
life, knowing that something good comes from trying my best to do what I
can to stay healthy.
My determination, positive outlook of life
and my faith does not compromise, waver or stop me from being my best
even when those days come to try to stop me from being who I am as I am
sure we all have those days.
It is through these challenges that
we must stay strong and look with in ourselves to push and keep going
forward to fulfill our goals.
During the past few years I have
been blessed to speak to high schools about my blindness, give resources
and help guide those who need direction whether it be to better
themselves and their outlook in their own life or to assist with those
who need encouragement, some help in finding a place of support.
I have also been blessed and honored to have put together a Dining in
the Dark event at my local church were we had the members all
blind-folded. I did the cooking for 50 members and we all practiced
learning how to read Braille. It was an experience for everyone involved
and it gave me the opportunity to share a little about me and how I live
in a world without sight. This event was called "Seeing with a new
perspective" I spoke of my faith and how faith is so needed every day in
my life as I journey this world being blind.
This spring I will
do a similar event on a higher level rather than just locally.
I
look forward to continue to keep striving to be my best and educate
people who are not familiar with blindness, Shareing on how the CCB has
been such a wonderful way of support and a great resource for me
personally.
I feel that we all need support & even though we
can't change the past we sure can learn from it to help not only
ourselves but help other's move forward in a positive way. This to me
means that we can't fix what is out of our control and all we can do is
take the good & bad and make the best of it. It is up to us to determine
whether our disability will stop us from moving in a positive way or
help us move forward to a better way of life.
I have to thank God
for my Daniel, family and I cannot neglect the beautiful ladies on the
CCB-Women's group. Support from one another is as vital to our health as
we grow to mature in becoming better in our everyday walk of life.
I have gained so much wisdom, strength from being in the Membership
Committee and as a monitor on the CCB-L group on line. I own a couple of
groups on line to help others educate them on Diabetes & blindness. I
have been totally blind for 18 years now and I can say that I have had
the best of both worlds as I can relate to both the sighted and the
blind community.
Blindness has brought me comfort, peace and a
better sense of self-worth.
Through my confidence I am able to
show other's that they too can be positive and make it even when
challenges are constantly in our life.
I look forward to continue
to keep striving to be my best and educate people who are not familiar
with blindness and all we are capable of doing.
I feel that we
all have disabilities or as I like to say "challenges" whether it be
physically, mentally, Emotionally or spiritually, they are all
challenges we deal with every day in our own way. Most importantly it is
how we as blind individuals go about educating others who are not
familiar with blindness and how we support one another to be better
people, a positive community and to stay positive for us and for those
around us as difficult as this can be at times, we have to do our best
with what life has handed to us.
I would like to leave you with
this small thought, we are as strong as long as we are true to one self,
be open to help those who ask for help and to keep supporting one
another. This is how we will continue to keep maturing and growing
within ourselves, to help make our world a better place.
Respectfully submitted,