Let's be honest: Do we prefer bad times or good times?
Imagine if
we had good times all the time. Would we continue to depend on Jesus? Or
would we be tempted to wander away from Him? Truly it's during the hard
times that we experience Him in the most intimate ways. Let me give you
an illustration:
Let's travel to a faraway country in South
America, to Colombia, where we will meet Didier. When Didier was 11
years old, he was forced to be a witness as his mother was shot by 38
bullets. Quite naturally, he was in shock. He needed to forget what he
had seen, and he began drinking heavily and doing drugs.
He
decided that the answer was vengeance. In order to accomplish this, he
began collecting all kinds of guns. He even added a couple of grenades
to the mix. Every night found him in desperate tears, crying for his
mother, and it's during those times that he would plan his retaliation.
His courage was lacking, however, and he never acted on his plans.
Then one day, a friend who was a Christian, introduced Him to Jesus.
It's then that he realized that hatred was consuming his soul, that he
had been walking on the dark side. Through the merits of Jesus, he was
able to forgive the one who had murdered his mother.
One day, out
on the streets, he actually met the man he thought to be his mother's
murderer. Sitting on the curb, he asked him why he had done this
horrible crime. The "killer" started to sob heavily, confirming for
Didier that he was, indeed, the murderer. Dedier assured him that he was
forgiven, but he was astonished to learn the truth: the man was not the
killer after all. Rather, it was the man's brother.
Didier would
then learn that the real murderer was in a lot of trouble, and he found
himself with a cause. He wanted to find him to tell him that he had been
forgiven. He wanted to help this criminal. Unfortunately, he had no idea
where he was.
Bring unable to locate the man, Dedier began
reaching out to help others who were facing trouble. He understood that
if he was able to forgive, then others could do so as well. All these
people filled with hatred could find real freedom.
During his
hard times, Dedier found the One who made a difference in his life. He,
too, would concur that, "We go through exactly what Christ goes through.
If we go through the hard times with him, then we're certainly going to
go through the good times with him!" (Rom 8:17b, MSG)
He
understood that: "The LORD is a refuge for the oppressed, a stronghold
in times of trouble. Those who know your name trust in you, for you,
LORD, have never forsaken those who seek you." (Ps 9:9-10, NIV2)
Are we willing to forgive and find real freedom?
Rob Chaffart