Do you remember the story of the two men who were walking through a
pasture and spotted an enraged bull? They instantly darted toward the
nearest fence. The storming bull followed in hot pursuit and it was soon
apparent they wouldn't make it in time. Terrified, one shouted to the
other, "Can you pray, John? We're not going to make it!"
John
answered, "I don't know how to pray."
"You have to!" Panted his
companion. "The bull is catching up to us."
"All right," agreed
John, Then he prayed the only prayer he knew, one he had heard his
father pray often at the dinner table: 'O Lord, for what we are about to
receive, make us truly thankful.'"
Not a bad prayer, actually, at
least in other circumstances. And not a bad attitude about life. But
even as important as being truly thankful, it is necessary to act truly
thankful.
Italian actor, director, singer-songwriter and poet
Roberto Benigni believes in the importance of acting thankful. Benigni
won the 1998 Academy Award for best actor for his performance in the
film "Life Is Beautiful." In his joy at receiving the honor, he actually
danced over the tops of chairs and leaped up on stage, applauding the
audience. The effusive Benigni believes that it's a sign of mediocrity
when one demonstrates gratitude with moderation. And he is anything but
moderate when showing gratitude.
How are you at showing your
gratitude? Most of us are not as demonstrative as Benigni, but acting
truly thankful can actually help us feel more grateful.
William
Arthur Ward said, "Feeling gratitude and not expressing it is like
wrapping a present and not giving it." Who would wrap a present and
not give it? And once the present is given, how do you feel? The truth
is...the more we express our gratitude, the happier we are. For it
isn't happiness that makes us grateful, but gratitude that makes us
happy.
How happy do you want to be?