Can we imagine being in Mary's position? She was a young girl of about
13 to 16 years of age, and was engaged to a godly man named Joseph. She
was preparing herself with great anticipation to become his wife.
We need to remember that marriages in those days were quite
different to today's marriages. According to Jewish custom, Joseph had
approached Mary's father and asked for Mary's hand in marriage. Then
came the fun. The father had to negotiate for a fair price for his
daughter. Once the price was agreed on, Joseph had to pay the price.
Only then was the marriage covenant established, and Joseph and Mary
were considered as future husband and wife. The bride was reserved
exclusively for the groom.
The groom would then leave his future
wife with her parents to begin preparing a home for them. During this
time of separation, the bride would be taught the responsibilities of
becoming a dutiful wife so that she would become a fitting mate for her
husband.
Only when everything was ready, and the home was finally
completed, would the groom come for his bride, and Mary had no idea when
this would happen. Generally this would be during the night; however,
great anticipation occurred during this time of preparation. The arrival
of the groom would be celebrated with a shout! The groom's party would
come to Mary's home first, yelling at the top of their lungs: "Behold
the bridegroom comes! Behold the bridegroom comes!" Only then would the
groom appear and bring his bride to the wedding celebration, and in
everything, she must be presented as a pure virgin.
Now that Mary
was with child, however, her dreams would fall into a million pieces. No
wonder she exclaimed: "How will this be . . . Since I am a virgin?" The
angel answered her: "The Holy Spirit will come on you, and the power of
the Most High will overshadow you. So the holy one to be born will be
called the Son of God." (Luke 1:35, NIV2)
Mary didn't doubt the
angel. She only wanted to understand how this could come to be. Even
though her dreams were shattered, she acted with humility and faith: "'I
am the Lord's servant . . . May your word to me be fulfilled.' Then the
angel left her." (Luke 1:38, NIV2)
In a world that thinks only
about itself, Mary showed a shining example of what it meant to put God
first in our lives.
Never before had such an event happened.
Nowhere in the Bible was there even a mention of anything like this.
There was absolutely no experiences of the past to draw from! Though the
prophecy was clear: "Therefore the Lord himself will give you a sign:
The virgin will conceive and give birth to a son, and will call him
Immanuel." (Isa 7:14, NIV2), most assumed it would be the result of the
consummation of marriage. No wonder the Pharisees and Sadducees, as well
as almost everyone else, would look upon Mary with disdain, as the
mother of an illegitimate child, she deserved stoning by death!
How often does it happen that when God shows up in ways never heard
before (ex. Exodus from Egypt, Elijah taken to heaven, Disciples
speaking in tongues during Pentecost . . .), that people, many of whom
are believers, criticize these events? Fortunately for us, this doesn't
stop our Father from being Who He is!
Interestingly, when
Zacharias, a priest of the Most High, received news from an angel that
his wife would bear a son (See Luke 1:13), he had a hard time believing.
How could this possible? He was an old man! He asked God for
confirmation, for the appearance of an angel wasn't enough. He needed
sound proof!
He got his confirmation: He was silenced until his
son was born, and only then did his voice return (See Luke 1:18-20).
When God silences someone in such a way, it is generally is because that
person's words could affect the outcome of the promise.
Mary
received the promise with faith, even though her life would change
drastically and not for the better. Zacharias received the promise with
doubt. Mary obeyed, Zacharias didn't. Ignorance asks for understanding,
doubters ask for proof. Mary was way ahead of Zacharias when she
surrendered unconditionally to the word of God.
God's promises
will be fulfilled, no matter what. We either trust Him fully or we stand
to the side, shaking our heads with unbelief.
Christmas can be
celebrated for the presents we receive, or it can be celebrated for the
promise that we have been given. One day Jesus will return for us. He
came once to pay the price of our sin; but now He is coming to claim His
bride, to bring home the ones who believe fully in Him.
"I will
come back and take you to be with me that you also may be where I am."
(John 14:3b, NIV2)
"Let us rejoice and be glad and give him
glory! For the wedding of the Lamb has come, and his bride has made
herself ready." (Rev 19:7, NIV2)
How are we receiving His
promise?
Rob Chaffart