He was a devious, tumultuous, impetuous, mischievous little brat. He was
a bit of a troublemaker, always instigating a disturbance. He was
forever being scolded by someone. His quick and seemingly sincere
comeback was always, "I'm sorry; please forgive me." It was good to hear
someone so young not only say, "I'm sorry," but also to ask for
forgiveness -- wow!...at first...but when it didn't bring about
change, it became a bit of an irritant. After several days of hearing it
over and over, it became outright annoying. And yet...seven times
seven...
He attended the teen camp for the week because it was
the only thing to do. He was lonely, and went because it would take him
away from the pain and shame of home, where he experienced constant
physical and verbal abuse. For years, his alcoholic parents had drummed
into his head that when he did something wrong he had to say, "I'm
sorry." And he learned that if he also said, "Please, forgive me" in
just the right tone, they would leave him alone. He learned to put on
the mask of mischievousness as a coping mechanism. A strong offense
became his defense.
It took a week of camp - a week of people not
reacting to his negative tryings, a week of hearing that there was
Someone who loved him so unconditionally that He laid down His life for
him -- a week of differences: different friendships that developed,
different reactions to his outbursts, different treatment...
different...different. No beatings, no being hollered at...Just
that someone loved him.
"Jesus, I'm sorry, please forgive me.
Come into my heart and make me the type of person You want me to be.
Thank You," he cried.
He is now a grandfather. But for all these
years, he has stayed friends with that one Person who loved him so
unconditionally that He laid down His life for him. That week at camp
changed his life. He can still be a bit of a tumultuous, impetuous,
mischievous brat as he shares the love of Jesus with those around him.
The behaviour of other people may disappoint us, but we never know
how God is working in their lives. Our continual forgiveness of their
mistakes may just be what God needs to influence them for eternity. Of
course, there are times when we need to confront people about their
actions, and we need to pray for God's wisdom to know the difference.
But God calls us who have received His continual forgiveness to pass
along to others the grace and forgiveness that we ourselves have
received.
Prayer: Heavenly Father, if our brother or sister sins
against us and they repent, give us the grace to forgive them. And even
if they sin against us seven times a day, and seven times a day they
come back saying they repent, help us to forgive them, just as You have
forgiven us. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Alec Niemi
Harrison Mills, British Columbia, Canada
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