On the 24th of March, it was pouring rain. The cars gathered in the
parking lots of nearby malls and shopping centres were all clustered
around the entrances. The intent was clear: Their drivers wanted to
spend as little time as possible in the pouring rain! There was one car,
however, a yellow Lamborghini, that was parked way out in the parking
lot, far from any of the other parked cars. The intent of its driver was
also clear: To avoid dents at all costs!
We don't always get what
we want, however. There was, ironically, a sole shopping cart within
three feet (one metre) of that lone car, and had it not been for this
passionate shopper, who, rain or no rain, was desperately looking for a
shopping cart, the driver would have returned to more damage than a
simple car door would have inflicted.
In the next parking lot, we
all noticed a brand-new, oversized truck, parked right in the middle of
two parking spots. It, too, was trying to avoid dents from nearby
vehicles. Luckily for its driver, there were no shopping carts in sight,
but in time, that could have happened as well. The point is this: Even
though we may take every possible precautionary measure to avoid the
dent and scratch hazards of a parking lot, our efforts are doomed to
fail.
A pastor friend of mine can vouch for that. A few years
back he made his son, who was just learning to drive at the time, park
their vehicle as far as possible from the entrance to Walmart. He
figured it would give him extra exercise, and more importantly, it would
avoid dents from those erring shopping carts! As he exited Walmart,
however, he couldn't help but notice a lone shopping cart careening its
way across the parking lot. Empowered by the wind, there was only one
thing to stop that cart's accelerating journey: My friend's car! And
stop it did, leaving behind a "beautiful" scratch on his pristine car!
Grrrr!
It may be that our expectations are a bit off. Perhaps it
is better to expect dents and find none than to expect that you have
avoided them. For sooner or later, they, too, will appear!
The
apostle Paul was not worried about dents in his car. To be honest, he
didn't even have a car, which is incidentally the best solution for
completely avoiding dents! Instead he urges us to "Avoid foolish
controversies and genealogies and arguments and quarrels about the law,
because these are unprofitable and useless." (Titus 3:9 NIV)
I
too believe in avoiding these poison-filled controversies at all costs.
I'd rather pray for my opponent as well as myself, as all of us still
need to learn to draw closer to God. He is our guide in all things!
Controversies will not draw people closer to our Heavenly Father,
instead it will bring distance between our Maker and ourselves, as
anything not done in love is not from God.
Dents are really
nothing. The other day someone used a crowbar to try to enter the car my
son had parked at a local shopping centre. Well, at least we can now
tell this car from others that are similar in style and color! Not bad,
is it?
Euh . . . Where did I park my car?
Rob Chaffart