Is this text just for unbelievers?
You be the judge!
We have visited many different churches over the years. Sad to say,
we've often walked in and out of churches without anyone even noticing
us. It certainly didn't make us feel very welcome!
We even visited a church once where we were asked, less than politely,
to sit in the back row. Not wanting to cause a commotion, we did as we
were asked. Nonetheless, everyone in the congregation stared at us with
suspicion. Could it have been our clothing? Though we were dressed in
our Sunday finest, we kind of stood out in the crowd! Everyone around us
was dressed in 18th century dark clothes, with hats on their heads!
Our most recent "make us feel welcome" church visit happened just
outside of Reykjavik in Iceland. The brochure told us that the church
was "open every day", and since all churches in this vicinity were open
from 10 to 6, when we arrived at 4:30 in the afternoon, we weren't
surprised to find the church doors wide open.
"I guess they're expecting us!" Joked one of my boys.
We climbed the stairs, took off our hats, and entered the church
vestibule. My wife and I turned aside here, to read the information
posted at the church entrance, but both of my sons immediately entered
the sanctuary.
"No, no, no!" Cried out a voice from within.
Like any "good" parents, my wife and I immediately assumed our boys were
misbehaving and turned to them. But to our relief, they were being as
good as gold. Nonetheless, one of the ladies inside the church was
hurrying towards them, shooing them back into the vestibule, and closing
the door in their faces! "The church is closed!" She stated just before
the doorknob clicked shut.
That's when I started to wonder how seekers of the truth (unbelievers)
feel when they visit our churches. Do they feel welcome? Do they feel
the presence of God's Spirit? Do we put our own agendas aside in order
to spend time with them? Do we show genuine love?
Or do we, by our actions, leave them feeling unwelcome, as if someone
had shut the door in their face? Do we treat them like the thousands of
bugs that splash against our windshield as we drive down the highway in
the summertime?
Has our thinking become futile as well? Are we glorifying God in
everything we do? Do we thank Him for everything-and everyone-He sends
our way?
"Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to the
interests of others. Your attitude should be the same as that of Christ
Jesus€¦" (Phil 2:4-5 NIV)
"Excuse me! May I get my hat? It slipped out of my hand and fell into
the sanctuary when you closed the door in my face!"
Rob Chaffart