After a hike up the turkey path, in Leonard Harrison State Park,
Pennsylvania, I was approached by a woman on a motorbike. She was
clothed like so many of the bikers in the region, in jeans and a leather
jacket. As she took her helmet off her head, I noticed tattoos all over
her arms.
She seemed eager to talk, and she told us she had
visited Watkins Glenn, NY that same morning. She was now at
Pennsylvania's Grand Canyon, and by evening she hoped to explore Pennsylvania Route
666. She had a goal, and was determined to achieve it.
She said
that the night before she had been unable to find lodging, so she had
spent the night in a cemetery. You and I might think this is creepy, but
at least she was in the company of those who do not snore at night. She
said it didn't bother her, she slept well, and that's all that was
important to her.
I was surprised when I heard that although
there was a bikers' convention going on in the region, she indicated
that the bikers ignored her. She was not part of their "group", and was
thus not welcome. I could see she felt lonely. Perhaps this is why she
sought our company! When she left for her next destination, she waved at
us with a big smile.
It's amazing how people open up when they
feel accepted. There is a hunger in each one of us to find acceptance.
Rejection makes us vulnerable. Acceptance makes us bloom, it makes us
feel good about ourselves.
I find it strange that the One who
unconditionally accepts us is the One most people try to avoid. Would we
be able to boldly say: "Whoever comes to me I will never drive away."
(John 6:37 NIV)?
We all have people in our lives who we try to
avoid at all cost. There's Aunt Augusta, for example, who constantly
spits in your face when talking, or Uncle John who bickers about
everything. There is also your school friend Henrietta who talks like a
locomotive speeding through the prairies. And the list goes on. We
always tend to reject others if they don't quit fit our mold.
But
not Jesus! He accepts anyone unconditionally. This is what God calls
grace. His love for us goes way beyond accepting us with open arms. You
see, we may at times accept people in our lives that may be annoying,
but how willing would we be to take the punishment of the crimes that
they committed?
Yet this is what Jesus did! And He did it without
hesitation! That's grace, real grace!
"Through him and for his
name's sake, we received grace." (Rom 1:5 NIV)
"He is the atoning
sacrifice for our sins, and not only for ours but also for the sins of
the whole world." (1 John 2:2 NIV)
If we are feeling rejected by
those around us, and discouragement roams the hallways of our minds, may
we remember that there is One who will accept us unconditionally.
"Whoever comes to me I will never drive away." (John 6:37 NIV)
"By the way, do you know of a good cemetery where I could sleep?"
How will we respond?
"I have another tent with me. Why don't
you join us at our campground?"
Rob Chaffart