Call it the "blame game." You know about it, too. Someone does
something diabolically wicked and it's reported in the newspaper. The
evidence is there and enough witnesses come forward to make the
conviction stand. And then we read about parents, relatives, and friends
who sobbingly declare that their child would never do this, or that the
police have framed him, or that the System (whatever that is) is to
blame. In other words, the wicked event -- a murder, a rape, or an
armed robbery all took place by itself. And even though the evidence and
witnesses clearly point to his or her guilt, the perpetrator is surely
not to blame.
I've also seen it happen with drug addicts and
alcoholics. I've sadly watched them ruin their lives, lose their jobs,
and sever themselves from their families and friends. Despite all of
these unfortunate things, the addict still mistakenly believes that
someone else is to blame.
It's a sad part of the human condition
which has been with us since the very beginning. In the Garden of Eden,
God discovers that Adam and Eve have eaten the forbidden fruit. When God
questions the couple, Adam blames Eve (and also God for making her). Eve
blames the serpent. No one is willing to stand up and say, "God, I
cannot tell a lie. It was me." They don't even say that they are sorry.
Left to ourselves, human beings can be highly irresponsible and
totally unrepentant. But through the mercy of God, the Holy Spirit
sometimes afflicts and convicts us of our mistakes. When that happens we
have two simple choices: we can go on thinking that we're not to
blame, or we can come to Christ's Cross and ask Him to hear our
confessions. If we approach Him sincerely, He will cancel our sins. We
will be at last freed from the "Blame Game" and received into the
Light of Christ.
Prayer: Lord Jesus, help us to name our shame
and impart from our hearts the failures, mistakes, and blame for the
sins we have committed, the relationships we have ruined, and the wrongs
we have done. Grant us the courage to make things right with You and
with those we have hurt, disappointed, or decried. In Your Holy Name, we
pray. Amen.
John Stuart
traqair@PROTECTED
Knoxville,
Tennessee, USA