"Hi! How are you?"
"I am fine. Thank you."
Are we
always telling the truth?
Although there are some people who love
to tell everyone their troubles, there are also many who don't like to
share their problems with others. Why depress them? They have their own
things to deal with. As a result, when you see the people sitting around
you in church, you have to wonder how many of them are suffering. They
look normal and they seem fine, but some have hidden problems: serious
illnesses, loss of jobs, death of a loved one, divorce...And the list
could go on. What they need is a real friend, someone who cares for
them, someone who will listen. This would change their lives for the
better.
This can be done in person, it can also be done over the
Internet. My wife has tried to encourage someone on the other side of
the country. It has made a huge difference to both of them. Eventually
my wife had the opportunity to meet this person. It was a tearful
meeting for both as she called my wife her soulmate.
What can we
do with people who are hurting, but don't want to share? Show them you
care. Try to see them at church, contact them via internet, or do
whatever is required to be a listening ear, to open the door for them to
share with you. Be a friend and care, and it will make a huge difference
in their lives.
"Hi! How are you?"
"I feel terrible!"
"I am so sorry. I hope your day will be better. Bye!!"
Are we
encouragers? Or are we indifferent to those who are hurting?
"Hey, I have time. Can I help you?"
In His love,
Rob
Chaffart