Have you ever been on the wrong side of the fence? Maybe something you
did wrong, a bad decision, and the world just seemed to collapse around
you for no reason.
I remember feeling that way when I was twelve
years old. My class went to our local swimming pool for our monthly
swimming lessons. While I was swimming, I suddenly found myself being
pulled way farther down in the water than I was comfortable with. It was
a joke, but I wasn't amused. I turned around and did the same thing to
him. In my eyes, he certainly deserved it!
The only problem is
that my teacher saw what I had done. Unfortunately, he hadn't seen my
"arch-enemy" doing the same thing to me...He got a "Get out of the jail
free" card, while for the first time of my life, I ended up in detention
hall. I was completely horrified! Truly I had made a bad decision.
Vengeance never satisfies!
But then, I have often found myself on
the wrong side of the fence in my life... Not the time we visited
Elizabeth Castle in Jersey, however...We wanted to visit the Hermit
Place and the German Pier, which were part of the castle grounds. When
we arrived at the gate, however, a sign clearly indicated: "This gate
will be locked exactly at 4:30 P.M." I looked at my watch, it was 4:21
P.M. We could venture for 9 minutes, but what if we found ourselves
locked inside? Time does fly fast when you're having fun, and it would
be quite a problem to find ourselves at the wrong side on the gate at
closing time!
What would you have done?
Joseph also found
himself on the wrong side of the fence when he secretly broke his
engagement with Mary. Only One could set all things right: God Himself!
Over and over God showed up in Joseph's life. Another time was when
there was an attempt to the life of baby Jesus by the murderous King
Herod. There again God made certain that Joseph would be on the right
side of the fence!
Another time God showed up to Joseph, but this
time with some terrific news: "After Herod died, an angel of the Lord
appeared in a dream to Joseph in Egypt and said, 'Get up, take the child
and his mother and go to the land of Israel, for those who were trying
to take the child's life are dead.'" (Matt 2:19-20, NIV2)
Immediately Joseph obeyed the angel of the Lord. However, Jesus was
still not completely safe. "But when he heard that Archelaus was
reigning in Judea in place of his father Herod, he was afraid to go
there. Having been warned in a dream, he withdrew to the district of
Galilee and he went and lived in a town called Nazareth. So was
fulfilled what was said through the prophets, that he would be called a
Nazarene." (Matt 2:22-23, NIV2)
When we depend on our own
ingenuity, we find ourselves way too often on the wrong side of the
fence. Only One can prevent this: our Father! He did it for Joseph on
numerous occasions, and He will do it for each one of us as well. Sadly,
many among us don't even pay attention to the warnings our Father tries
to make us aware of. Only when we depend solely on our Father will we
never make wrong decisions: "He refreshes my soul. He guides me along
the right paths for his name's sake." (Ps 23:3, NIV2)
Even today,
on Christmas day, we can find ourselves on the wrong side of the fence.
We may rejoice for the many gifts we have received, but these gifts
sooner or later will fade into nothingness. The best present I ever
received is when I discovered how much my Heavenly Father loves me, so
much that He sent His Son Jesus to my neighbourhood, so that He could
save me from certain death. Once I started to walk with Him, I found
joy, peace and love like never before.
Still, at times I find
myself on the wrong side of the fence as I make decisions without
consulting my Father. But this doesn't have to be.
Today we are
honoring Jesus for all He has done and is still doing for us. May we
always remember to honor Him at all times, especially when we make
decisions. It is an honor to Him when we trust Him completely, and we
can be certain He will see us through. He will stand by us through thick
and thin!
We truly have no reason to be on the wrong side of the
fence. After all, "The LORD is my shepherd, I lack nothing." (Ps 23:1,
NIV2)
"May I warn you that I am a legal, dangerous and
destructive weapon that will evaporate you into nothingness. I truly
suggest to leave me alone!"
Do we truly believe that our
ingenuity will prevent us from being dunked?
"Detention Hall!"
Oh no! Not again!
Rob Chaffart