I often encounter questions similar to this: "Why can't I hear God?"
Generally those who ask these kinds of questions have been struck with
adversity. They long to hear from God, but somehow they are unable to
perceive His voice. They wonder if they ever will hear from Him again.
The answer to this is much more complex than we may think. In the
upcoming months, we will explore the different things that can hinder us
from hearing God's voice. After all, our God is a God of love and He
always has our best interest at heart. Throughout His Word, the Bible,
He makes us aware of the many things that can cause our relationship to
become estranged and what can be done to rectify this, but first we need
to realize a very important truth: "Christ came and preached peace to
you outsiders and peace to us insiders. He treated us as equals, and so
made us equals. Through him we both share the same Spirit and have equal
access to the Father." (Eph 2:17-18, MSG)
We have never had
access to God through our own merits. We are the ones who broke off our
communication with God, wandering away from His love to pursue our very
own interests. But God in His grace didn't give up on us. Instead He
pursued us with His love, willingly dying for us, so that our broken
relationship could be rectified and we could experience God fully.
This is confirmed all over in the New Testament, in verses such as
this one: "Don't Throw It All Away. So, friends, we can now--without
hesitation--walk right up to God, into 'the Holy Place.' Jesus has
cleared the way by the blood of his sacrifice, acting as our priest
before God. The 'curtain' into God's presence is his body." (Heb 10:19,
MSG)
Here is our first hindrance: If we foster anything that will
separate us from our righteous God, we won't be able to hear His voice
any longer. "There's nothing wrong with God; the wrong is in you. Your
wrongheaded lives caused the split between you and God. Your sins got
between you so that he doesn't hear." (Isa 59:2, MSG) This is why it is
so important to "Examine your motives, test your heart..." (1Cor 11:28a,
MSG).
The same is true with any relationship. How close can a
wife be to her husband if he never has any time for her? If his hobbies
always seem more important to him than anything else? The same is true
with our relationship with our loving Father in heaven. If we have
nothing in common, if we show no interest in spending time with Him,
there won't be any intimacy.
For years my wife invited me to go
for walks with her, and for years I had what I thought were very
legitimate excuses: "Too hot;" "Too cold;" "Too rainy;" "Too windy;"
"Too busy" (My most common excuse!)...and the list could go on. One
day I woke up and realized that we had drifted apart. We had become
estranged from one another. We still loved each other, but I had no idea
what my wife was going through.
Around the same time I realized
this, I was going through some tumultuous times of my own, with health
concerns needing to be addressed. Walking was part of the cure, and I
began going for a walk with my wife every evening. We began to get to
know one another again, in the way we used to know one another, and
romance began to come back into our marriage. I now know in detail what
she is going through on a daily basis, her joys, her struggles, her
hopes, and no matter what she is going through I am there for her.
We haven't stopped walking since that time, and just recently we've
found a way to make the walks even more meaningful: We involve God in
our walks! This time we spend together gives us the opportunity to pray
for others and for this ministry as well.
If we don't foster a
relationship, it's inevitable that we will become estranged. Remember
all of your friends from the past? How close can you feel to those you
never stayed in contact with? Would they even answer a letter if you
sent it to them?
Yes, the busyness of life can make us wander
away from what we once considered to be a prized relationship. If we
examine our motives and discover that we have wandered away, we have a
choice to make: Either we continue our pursuits and forsake our
relationship with our Maker and Savior, or we stop in our tracks and
turn back, asking for forgiveness and once again hungering to romance
the Lover of our souls.
You know what God says in such
circumstances? "On the other hand, if we admit our sins--make a clean
breast of them--he won't let us down; he'll be true to himself. He'll
forgive our sins and purge us of all wrongdoing." (1 John 1:9, MSG)
It's never too late to rectify our relationship with our Heavenly
Father. Now is our opportunity to start experiencing Him fully again.
Start walking with Him. Try listening to His sweet loving voice. You
will have no choice but to fall in love with Him once again, more than
ever before, for He truly loves you. He loves you more than you love
yourself! You are, after all, His child!
But there are many other
reasons that can hinder us from hearing God. Next month we will discover
another hindrance that may need to be examined a bit closer in our
lives.
Remember that God loves you and will never stop loving
you.
Will you go for a walk with Him?
Rob Chaffart