While on our trip in New Zealand, we had planned on having a diving
experience like nothing we had ever experienced before. We carefully
chose the best diving boat, the best diving instructor, and the best
diving location.
Being new to the sport, we received plenty of
basic survival instruction. Unfortunately, we weren't instructed about
the dive itself...
After being fitted with numerous devices that
literally turned us into waddling ducks, my wife and I both made our way
to the diving platform. It was here that the weights around my waist
began to slowly shift in the direction of the boat's deck. It seems I
have no waist. Only a pot belly!
Our instructor initially wished
to try and train both of us at the same time, but for some reason, after
just five minutes in the water, he gave up and worked with us one at a
time.
My wife let the instructor propel and guide her, but her
tendency to float to the surface put more than one snare in her
instructor's instructions. He looked a bit pale when he came back for
me.
Because I was wearing duck-like fins on my feet, I figured I
needed to use them. And I did. Constantly. As it turned out, I propelled
my instructor, who was quite occupied with the task of keeping me under
water, on a wild goose chase. Once back on the boat, with my weights now
comfortably settling around my knees, all he could say was, "What a
ride!"
It's then that I realized that we had no idea how to
actually enjoy the dive. Other than the fact that we were to breathe
regularly and try to follow our instructor's hand gestures, we had no
idea what was expected of us once we were under the water. Is this why
our instructor was completely beat by the end of the day?
And to
make matters worse, all those beautiful fish we had anticipated seeing
had been totally absent...
As the end of the day rolled around, we
weren't exactly rejoicing. Both my wife and I were in agreement:
Snorkelling was far more fun than diving! But then, how could we
rejoice, when we hadn't really enjoyed our experience?
In
retrospect, we had it all wrong. I had expected a dive, but instead I
experienced a flipper marathon, while those slippery weights just kept
making their way south! I hope ducks don't ever experience anything like
this! My wife's expectation was different. She had anticipated admiring
the many beautiful fish. Instead, her experience was a constant
elevator-going-up kind of ride. We can see the humour in it now. Perhaps
had we seen it then, we would have had more fun!
The problem is
that most of us run around with wrong expectations. We are not on this
planet to check off to-do lists, nor are we here to continually ask
"What's in it for me?" We are here for one purpose only: "So whether you
eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God." (1 Cor
10:31 NIV). With such an attitude we could rejoice continually in
whatever we are experiencing, even if we are facing tremulous trials!
This is why the Bible constantly encourages us to rejoice and
experience pure joy, no matter what the circumstances. Take these texts,
for example:
"We also rejoice in our sufferings, because we know
that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and
character, hope." (Rom 5:3 NIV)
"Consider it pure joy, my
brothers, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that
the testing of your faith develops perseverance." (James 1:2-3 NIV)
The reasons we can experience utter joy in the midst of our trials
is because the One we adore so much left us a brilliant example. He,
too, experienced humongous adversity. Being nailed on a cross is far
from enjoyable. Still Jesus endured that experience because He knew the
joy that would be a result of his choice. He knew that because of His
sacrifice, many would come to know our Father in heaven.
"Let us
fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith, who for
the joy set before him endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat
down at the right hand of the throne of God." (Heb 12:2 NIV)
This
is why the apostle Paul could exclaim: "In all our troubles my joy knows
no bounds." (2 Cor 7:4 NIV)
I need an attitude adjustment. Joy
surrounds me even amidst adversity. I am here for a purpose. Even when
weights entangle my feet, making it impossible for me to flip my
flippers, there are still numerous reasons to rejoice and enjoy the
experience. It is my act of worship.
Uh...where did my flippers
go?
Rob Chaffart