We all want to be home with our families for Christmas. In 1979, I
wished I were home in Taiwan, but it was too distant and costly. I was
in my second year as a visa student at the University of Toronto, in
Toronto, Ontario, Canada, and while all of the other students in my
residence at East House in Knox College had gone home, I was left alone.
I did receive an invitation to a friend's house for Christmas dinner,
but I chose to be alone that year, for I was a bit overwhelmed with
grief over the loss of my mother earlier that year to celebrate with
others. As Christmas Eve arrived, I began looking for a fine restaurant
for my solo celebration dinner. But what do you know? Nowhere was open
except McDonald's in nearby uptown Toronto!
Strangely enough, the
hamburger didn't taste as good as it normally did, and the Christmas
carols over McDonald's speakers didn't sound as joyous as they were
meant to be. I had never realized until that moment what loneliness was
about and what that feeling did to a person. The more I stayed, the
lonelier I became. Then soon, tears were streaming down my cheeks as I
yearned for home. "That's it," I told myself. "This is no way to spend
my Christmas Eve. I want to go out and look for anybody I can find to
celebrate with." So I wrapped up the unfinished Big Mac, threw it in the
garbage can, walked out of the door, and landed on Yonge Street.
I looked at my watch, and it was around 6:00 p.m. What really surprised
me was how this busiest street in town suddenly had become so empty and
quiet. There was neither a single soul walking nor a single taxi
running, and not even a bum wandering around. Only when I strolled
further to Dundas Street did I find one, a homeless man, who was
half-drunk, sitting and sleeping on the sidewalk. So I woke him up and
told him, "Merry Christmas, man! Wake up and let's celebrate Christmas
at my place." "Who are you? Santa Claus of some sort?" He asked. "Ho,
ho, ho!" I said. "It doesn't matter who I am. Just come with me -- my
treat." He mustered himself up and walked with me. I took him to
Chinatown, and luckily, there were some stores still open. I bought a
lot of food and drink, enough for the two of us to celebrate Christmas.
That night, two lonely people spent Christmas together, and it turned
out to be one of the most joyous Christmas Eves I've ever had.
What is it that causes us to yearn for home during Christmas? Tradition?
Maybe. For sure, many of our best memories are built around being home
at Christmas, and it does give us a sense of belonging and happiness
with our family. But there is something more than this. It has to do
with a deeper sense of "home" that we feel at Christmastime. Christmas
is built around the story of a man and woman who had a Child away from
home. The Child was even more away from "home" than His parents, because
He had left His heavenly home to be born in a mere stable in Bethlehem.
Later, for safety, they became refugees in Egypt.
God purposely
sent Jesus to earth to experience a homeless and refugee life. Why?
Because He wanted all of the homeless people and refugees in the world
to know that He, too, had been there and done that. He came all the way
from heaven to make such a statement in order to bring hope to the poor
people in the world. Such is the good news of Christmas that people who
have no home can have a home in His kingdom.
In today's
Scripture, He told us, "In my Father's house are many rooms ... I go to
prepare a place for you ... that where I am you may also be." (John
14:2-3 RSV) We are not going to stay here forever, and He has prepared a
home for us in heaven after we die. All we need to do is to take Him as
our Lord and Saviour. God intends for the people of the world to yearn
for their eternal home, and "home for Christmas" to me is but a
rehearsal here on earth of such a belief.
Prayer: Dear God, You
are so great and humble that You sent Your Son, Jesus our Lord, to be
born in a lowly manger rather than in an elegant palace. Then You
announced such news of great joy by the angels to the poor shepherds
first, in hope that the poor, the homeless, and the refugees would be
able to yearn for home in Your kingdom through their faith in Christ.
Hallelujah! We praise You and thank You for the great hope You bring to
us in the birth of Christ. Amen.
Andrew Apack Song
Elora, Ontario, Canada
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